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Plus, promo codes for a transformational men's group.
Note: The following is a shorter newsletter and includes some big discounts for two upcoming programs from Rob Kancler. These are transformational opportunities geared toward men looking to improve their sex lives while also becoming more divinely connected to themselves, the universe, and women.

Cupid and Psyche (1707-9) by Giuseppe Maria Crespi
37 And [Jesus] said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. 38 This is the great and first commandment. 39 And a second is like it, You shall love your neighbor as yourself. 40 On these two commandments depend all the law and the prophets.”
The above quote from the New Testament encapsulates Christ’s teachings into two, simple commandments that—in reality—are one in the same. Whether you are Christian or not, you may see how this teaching turns our attention to the two most miraculous facts of life:
We are here.
We are here together.
For Christians, that we exist at all gives us a moral obligation to love God—in other words, to be always connected with the inexhaustible mystery of being. If we take some time to look around at what is here, the marvelous fact that we have each other to spend our lives with can never be taken for granted. We honor this greatest of gifts by endeavoring to love each other as best as we can.
For those reading, we will note that the practice of Circling keeps us always in touch with these two miracles. It’s worth taking a little time to understand how that works, even if Christianity isn’t your path.
The briefest way to describe Circling, perhaps, is building connection in the present moment. Bringing our awareness to the present reminds us that we are here (the first miracle), and so is a way of loving God. Using that present moment awareness to build connection reminds us that we are here together (the second miracle), and so is a way of loving our neighbor.
For Circlers, it is all right here in the Circle.
There is another field that can open us up to these same mysteries, miracles, and commandments in much the same way: sex.
Now, I’d like to share with you some about the program Men of Substance (MoS). If it is of interest, there are some promotion codes at the end of this section that allow you to save a tremendous amount of money to try out MoS for yourself.
MoS is the brainchild of Rob Kancler—a frequent collaborator with The Container. His life’s work focuses on teaching men how to have more and better sex. To do that, he also gives you a comprehensive gameplan for reconnecting with the deepest spiritual truths at the core of existence. He works the lessons through every layer of your being, remaking men in the process of teaching them how to be great in bed and build meaningful connections with women and themselves.
Kancler described what this process really means in a recent long-read post on Facebook. In it, he imagines a pill that would immediately allow you to have the best possible sex. Would you take it? Obviously, yes. But he shows us the real issue with this solution if it were real:
In all likelihood, you would go insane. Because making that change requires the unraveling of closely held beliefs about yourself and reality, and many internal structures identified with survival or orientation. You would inevitably be brought to face your shadows, and meet your true nature and identity in ways that would shatter you and require massive fundamental changes to reconcile. You would need to learn to stabilize beyond any addictions, avoidance, collapse, and other defenses.
When you read about what it takes to make this change—the unraveling of beliefs, the intimacy with shadows, and so on—it’s clear that his operation has a lot to offer many, many men.
If you are reading this and are just such a man, consider hopping into Men of Substance yourself. To make this easier, Kancler breaks this down into two offerings: a single-session masterclass and a longer system called the Blueprint.
Below are promo codes for both that give you big discounts:
Masterclass | Men of Substance Blueprint | |
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Promo code: CONTAINER Takes the class from $47 down to $9 | Promo code: CONTAINER800 Get $800 off the Blueprint (good through November 9) | Promo code: CONTAINER800tenpay Get $800 off the Blueprint if you use the payment plan (good through November 9) |
Come Circle with Us
Below are details for our next Circling event. You can also check it out on MeetUp. Remember, we are using a new space:
Drop-in Circling |
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When: Saturday, November 22 | 5-9 PM Where: Charlottesville Center for the Arts (aka Ballet School) 2409 Ivy Road |
Intro to Circling: 5:00-5:45 PM (for those new to the practice or wanting a refresher) Drop-in Circling: 6:00–9:00 PM (come anytime, stay as long as you would like) Cost: Pay what you will |
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